When people talk about pilgrimages, they often think of adults seeking new cultural experiences through strenuous and challenging journeys. But this is not necessarily the case. What if you decide to go on a pilgrimage with your children? With the right preparation and approach, a pilgrimage can be an educational, fun and meaningful adventure for the whole family. Here are some tips on how to make it happen – successfully.
- Choose the right destination
The first step is to choose a route (or a place) that is both accessible and interesting for children. Among the most famous in Europe, Santiago de Compostela in Spain, the Basilica of St Francis in Assisi and the Sanctuary of Our Lady of Loreto are interesting destinations rich in history and culture.
The length of the route must be considered from the outset. A pilgrimage can last from a few hours to several weeks. A shorter route, such as a one-day walk, may be more suitable for children, while a multi-day trip requires careful planning.
- Use your imagination
Involving children in the preparation of a pilgrimage can increase their enthusiasm. Reading stories and legends that explain the meaning of the journey and the places to be visited will arouse their curiosity and provide an opportunity to discuss important themes related to the pilgrimage experience – perseverance, respect, hospitality.
Encourage children to take an active part in the preparation by involving them in the choice of clothes, equipment and even games to bring along. Keeping a travel diary, to which everyone in the family can contribute, is also a plus.
- Planning a kid-friendly itinerary
A pilgrimage is a special kind of journey, sure, but it is also an opportunity to explore and have fun. Plan regular stops to rest, eat, and play. Look for places of interest along the way: parks, recreational areas, and local attractions can add an extra layer of excitement to the journey.
Include fun activities to keep children’s attention, such as group games or small challenges. For example, you could create a scavenger hunt that encourages them to observe their surroundings and discover historical or natural details.
- Equipment needed
The choice of equipment is crucial to a comfortable and safe pilgrimage. Make sure that each family member has appropriate and comfortable footwear. Backpacks should be light and not too bulky, carrying only the essentials. For children, consider smaller rucksacks that they can carry on their own.
Also include reusable water bottles, healthy snacks, a first aid kit, and sunscreen. A good navigation system, such as maps or smartphone apps, will also help everyone stay on course.
- Involving children
A pilgrimage is first and foremost a journey of discovery. Some do it for spiritual reasons, others for cultural reasons, and still others as a different way of travelling. Share with your children the aspects that are most important to you and find ways to make them accessible and interesting. For example, you could have short educational moments during the stops, where everyone can share a bit of what they have discovered about the places you have crossed.
- Local culture
During your pilgrimage, make sure you soak up the local culture. Visit markets, attend festivals or community events and try local cuisine. This will certainly help children to understand the importance of local traditions and will encourage curiosity, awareness and a thirst for knowledge.
You could also involve children in some hands-on activities where they can learn traditional crafts and take home a souvenir they made.
- Respect boundaries
It is important to listen to children’s needs and limits during the pilgrimage. If you notice that they are tired or overwhelmed, take a break. The goal is to create a positive and meaningful experience – not to force them to complete a walk at the expense of having fun.
Encourage open communication; ask kids how they are feeling and what they want. Adjusting the plan to meet their needs is sure to make for a more harmonious trip.
- Family Matters
Finally, remember that a pilgrimage is an opportunity to strengthen family ties. Sharing moments of joy, as well as facing challenges together, makes the experience valuable. Encourage children to share their impressions and thoughts by creating an open and welcoming environment.
A family pilgrimage can be an extraordinary, educational, and inspiring adventure. The road ahead is full of possibilities. Are you ready to set out?
